Showing posts with label Joe del Tufo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joe del Tufo. Show all posts

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Arden...red, WHITE, and blue

Arden Dinner in White Sparkler Sendoff, photo by Joe del Tufo

I have been lax in my blogging. I have sent my novel off to my agent for review, and as a result I have no novel writing to procrastinate. Hence, no blogging. The effect is multiplied because it is summer, and I am busy, running around Arden in the beautiful weather--summer camp songs of my youth, popping into my head. Something about all the deep green foliage and the twisty roads and trails that conjure my first forays into selfhood. Ah, summer camp.

ACRA's summer program is in full swing now. This week they had an ice cream sundae party and played water "Hunger Games." The program is in its post-July 4th stride now and heading for the home stretch. Three weeks down and two weeks to go. I didn't blog about July 4th, busy as I was with our own doings. This year, Mark and I drove to Lewes where we hiked with our hiking group from Cape Henlopen to Rehoboth beach, ending our eight-mile trek in a glorious mess of marmalade-topped shredded Austrian pancakes at Kaisy on Rehobeth Avenue. Not very American, but a worthy celebration just the same.

Back home in Arden, our daughter Maren and her boyfriend participated in the Arden Games on the Green. With participants ages four to eighty-four, the games reflect friendly competition at its finest. How serious can you get over the sack race or three-legged race or slowest bicycle race? Plenty. The first year we came to the games (which was within five days after moving to Arden) we saw a youth painted to the likeness of Darth Maul from Star Wars I movie. He was killing it at every event. Who is this kid? Two years later, we know him as our daughter's boyfriend. He was nursing an injury this year, but still gave it everything he had. Other Arden teens painted themselves in a more event appropriate red, white, and blue. The games started with the ceremonial running of the torch around the Green.  Last year, our son got to carry it part of the way as part of his involvement as co-outdoor activities coordinator at ACRA's summer program. Arden doesn't have any officially sanctioned firework events in the evening, but those who are looking for a show know where to go unofficially. Invariably the whole town will hear about the debris on the Pettit Green the next day. We had to explain to our daughter that even though she didn't set off any fireworks, if she was part of the crowd who enjoyed them, she was also responsible for the mess and should go help clean it up. Who knows where traditions like these start or how long they have been around?

From longstanding rituals to the stand-alone pop-up event. A week after July 4th, Arden joined in the trend (started in France?) of the diner en blanc. Participants wear all white and gather in a predesignated spot. They decorate a table with white and bring out a prepared picnic. Of course, Arden put its spin on things. Arden Night in White was a fundraiser for the new kitchen being installed in the Gild Hall. Ninety people who bought tickets, including us, met in the Gild Hall parking lot to process to the secret location for the festivities. Here is where I admit that Mark and I knew of the secret location. It was the back yard of our friends Cynthia and David. It is the same back yard where we first got our introduction to Arden back in May of 2009. It is a magical spot indeed, and the weather could not have been more glorious--an unusual July evening in which heat and humidity took a breather. The soundtrack for our procession and dinner was a fitting and quite impressive playlist of artists who had performed in Arden Concert Gild's shows over the years. Everyone got to work, setting the stage. So many beautiful tables. So many artful menus. The costumes were thoughtful and outrageous and a delight. One woman, not from Arden but who somehow stumbled upon promotion of the event, showed up wearing her wedding dress. She and her groom, who was not quite as obvious, had gotten married earlier in the day. They won the prize for best-dressed. How could they not?

While nobody else wore a gown, everybody brought their A-games and ratcheted the celebration to a higher level. I saw trays of cheeses, homemade aioli, lobster salad, white gazpacho soup shots, creme brûlée, appetizers so decadent they need to be eaten in one-bite allotments only-- off of white ceramics soup spoons. Our table featured an Israeli menu we recreated using recipes from the famed Zahav restaurant in Philly, and we served the fare in white Chinese food boxes for added whimsy (and convenience). As for the tablescapes: white crudités platter, lush flower arrangements, bird cages, lanterns, feathers, architectural elements, fairy lights, and textiles. With all the creativity, the prize for best decorated table was not as easy a choice for judges, but they managed to declare a winner.  It was a good thing that Joe del Tufo was on hand to document the glory with his all-seeing camera lenses. That man is a ridiculous light-bender and storyteller in his own right. The event was an unqualified success. Before the sparkler sendoff, we managed to raise about $3,000 for the new kitchen.

I don't know if I witnessed the start of yet another Arden tradition or if, like Brigadoon, the tale of this event will fade into the mists, to be talked about in reverent whispers for the next decade. I'm not sure we could improve upon the perfection that was had. Another possibility that was kicked around was an Arden tie-dye dinner. Something different indeed that would defy comparison. And it was suggested that we should wear the same clothes we wore to Dinner in White, only tie-dyed for that event. That would be a heck of a thing to do to one's wedding gown.

Gallery of photos from the event.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

The Incomparable Joe del Tufo

In the early 2000's, I went through a huge Frances Mayes Under the Tuscan Sun phase. I was making Soffritto, painting walls a shade of gold that they had no business being, drinking Italian wine, watching the movie, reading the books. I stopped short of painting a fresco on our walls. Mayes has a way of writing that made me want to pack up everything I owned and move to Tuscany. Then she came out with beautifully photographed coffee table books, In Tuscany and Bringing Tuscany Home, and I thought I would die of operatic heart palpitations.

It was through these books that I had a revelation: I didn't need to move to Tuscany. I just needed to learn to photograph my life so it looked like I was living in a coffee table book. I took my trusty Cannon Rebel out into the Lancaster County countryside and proceeded to photograph things like the  farm stand up the road, goats in the field, the funky merchandise at Green Dragon, my meals, my garden produce--you get the picture. But while I have a good eye, I have neither technical camera smarts nor a long attention span. I was able to get some good photos by some fluke that the camera was set just right. But even then, I did not follow through on the grand scheme to photo document my life so that I would give myself heart palpitations just by being me. (It's all in the advertising.) Just so this doesn't come off as being too meta, think of my efforts as a way for me to appreciate my life--a visual gratitude journal, let's say. A way for me to see my own life with the wonder reserved for an eager tourist on vacation.

Fast-forward about ten years, and we move to Arden. We bought our house from Joe and Keri del Tufo. Keri grew up in Lancaster County near where Mark and I were raised.  Joe wears many hats, but one of them is a backward baseball cap--backward so the brim doesn't get in the way while he is shooting. And you will hardly ever find Joe without a camera in his hand and a camera bag slung around his back. Joe never trained as a photographer, but he is in constant the pursuit of the craft. It is second nature to him now. He is the Arden photographer. My apologies to Danny Schweers  (who does gorgeous nature photography), the late Earl Brooks ( a contemporary of Ansel Adams), and anyone else I am overlooking. But I have only once seen Danny with a camera in hand.

Joe, on the other hand, is never without his pack. He photographs as many Arden events as he can possibly attend and throws the photos out there for everyone to use and enjoy. I attended the Roaring 20's Party at the Buzz last month. Joe had another gig, possibly photographing a concert in Wilmington. The fact that we have none of his pictures from the event makes me doubt if it even happened. It's that whole If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it conundrum. I do kind of have one small piece of proof from that evening: I won one of Joe's infrared photographs in the silent auction.

We came to know Joe well through our Sunday morning hikes. Every week, he takes a shot of the hiking group that makes us look like we are on an album cover. We are rock star hikers. I do not like being photographed--at all. But when Joe has his camera out, I begin to Vogue.  Here's the other thing you should know: we bought our house sight unseen based solely on photographs that Joe took that were uploaded onto the realty company's website.  I saw the photos. Sent Mark the link with the text: I WANT THIS HOUSE. (You guessed it--heart palpatations.)

It doesn't matter what Joe is photographing--his dog,  Sunday dinner, concerts at the Arden Gild Hall, the woods, that drop of water (he likes his macro water shots), the Arden Holiday party --he makes his world--which has lots of overlap with my world--look good. I can joyfully inhabit the life he reflects back to me. You will see plenty of his photos in my blog, I am sure. I walk Joe and Keri's dog, Puck, twice a week in order to build up credit with Joe. I envision photo shoots for author photos, Maren's head shots, photos for our 25th wedding anniversary which is coming up. I will put some miles on that dog.

Last October, Mark and I took a road trip which included the cities of Nashville, TN and Asheville, NC. We got out the Canon Rebel, but didn't even know what to do with it. "This sucks! Who is going to take our pictures while we are on vacation?" We took a few photos with our iPhones, but our hearts weren't in it. I think there was one shot of Mark's back as he was walking down a Nashville street. Other than that, we weren't in any of the photos. We had a good time. . . I think. But was it any wonder that before the week was up, we were ready to end our vacation and get back to our regularly photographed lives?

Below are just a small sample of Joe's work. Check out Joe's website for more.